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Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Sanctuaries

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

Sanctuary-1It was a misty morning in a small, out-of-the-way English countryside village.

Hanging flower baskets, timeworn cafes, and antiquated shops lined the cobblestone streets. The town was packed with old bookstores in which dusty, leather-bound or linen-wrapped books were piled from floor to ceiling. Some of the books’ bindings had been repaired with old tape. Some books were secured by twine or fastened with rusty old locks.

I felt smarter surrounded by these ancient tomes.

As I sat on narrow stools and cement floors in these shops, I found works written by Luther, Spurgeon, Thomas Aquinas, St. Teresa of Avila, and St. John of the Cross. I cherished the simple way in which these great theologians wrote about doctrine and spiritual discipline.

One of my favorite places on earth, I spent a few days in that old town, and it became a sanctuary that I will always treasure and that I can always return to in my memory.

In your busy world, do you have any sanctuaries—places where your soul can meditate on and rest in the simple truths of God’s Word?

Here's why you need one.

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Tuesday, March 05, 2013

Clinging to God When Tragedy Invades [Interview]

An Interview with Greg Laurie

In 2008, Greg Laurie received a phone call that changed his life. His son Christopher had been killed in an automobile accident.

Grief and loss can trigger cavernous pain in our lives. Tragedies reduce life to its basics and stir up questions in our hearts about life’s purpose and about God’s presence.

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Greg Laurie knows personal grief up close. In this candid interview, he shares what helped him walk through his season of sorrow—as well as the lingering loss he still endures.

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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Homework

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

HomeworkHomework . . . need I say more?

It had been one of those days, and endeavoring to help my son Jon with his homework was not on the top of my “want-to-do” list. He was tired. I was more than cranky.

The combination was not going to provide a successful outcome . . . and it didn’t.

While I was trying to multitask, cooking dinner and sorting mail, Jon was anxiously attempting to do his homework on his own. I glanced over, only to see his red, sweaty face bent down, his hand gripping the pencil tightly.

His silent expression said it all: I feel defeated, and I cannot do this on my own. Instant conviction covered my soul. I had been a selfish jerk.

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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Finding Hope When Life Feels Impossible [Interview]

An Interview with Amy Robertson

Life is full of ups and downs we never expected. For some, the surprising twists and turns change everything about life. It even seems impossible.

Amy Robertson understands challenges, change, and choices in the midst of unbearable pain.

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When Amy Robertson’s youngest son, Dustin, was diagnosed with severe autism just before he turned 3, life was difficult.

When Dustin turned 11, the difficult turned into utter despair.

The good news is that God was faithful to bring Amy and her family through the difficult decision of placing Dustin in a group home. Amy’s authentic message of despair, acceptance, surrender, grief, and choices is saturated with truth, comfort, and the amazing hope provided by our faithful God.

We all encounter a crisis or event that appears impossible to endure and demands we choose to walk by faith. If you find yourself in a place of darkness, despair, or doubt, Amy’s story will offer an abundance of encouragement and hope.

Interview Questions

Here are some of the questions we talked through in our interview.

  1. What kind of an experience has this been for your family?
  2. How did this affect Dustin’s siblings?
  3. What were Dustin’s behaviors when young and then as he got older?
  4. When his behaviors changed, how did that affect your relationship with God?
  5. What was the transition like when you moved Dustin to his home?
  6. How did Dustin’s move affect his brothers and your family life?
  7. What passages of Scripture or simple truths helped you press on?


For You

Question: What is your impossible situation? How has it affected your relationship with God? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Despite Your Circumstances

by Charles R. Swindoll

396915_i_hopeFew people in the first century had a deeper understanding of God’s grace than the apostle Paul. Redeemed from a life of vicious brutality as a rigid legalistic Pharisee, the man turned the corner, repented, and through Christ’s empowering became a gentle soul, gracious and affirming. Understanding. Forgiving. Approachable. He reached the place where he was willing not only to offer hope to the Gentiles, but to live among them, though he himself would bleed pure Jewish blood.

No one that I know endured the level of hardship Paul did as a good soldier of Christ. What makes him all-the-more amazing is this: never once does he leave a hint of complaint over being chained to a burly Roman soldier or about the inconvenience of being confined to such cramped quarters. The man simply would not grumble. By God’s grace, he lived above it all. I repeat, he had learned the secret of contentment.

The great temptation is to allow that to embitter you—to turn you into someone who lives under a dark cloud, where doom and gloom characterize your outlook. Life’s hard. You live in a situation that resembles a house arrest. You feel chained to your past, unable to escape the restrictive circumstances. Maybe you’ve lived this way so long that negative thinking has become a habit. You can’t imagine thinking any other way.

I’ve got wonderful news: there is hope beyond your circumstances. You can live above them. If a man named Paul could live above his unbelievably trying circumstances, so can you. But Christ must become your central focus. He, alone, can empower you and teach you to live above the duress of adversity. Your external circumstances may not change, but deep within, you will. As Christ is allowed first place in your thoughts, changes will occur. Those changes will be evident to your mate, your children, your friends, and your coworkers. Instead of seeing yourself as a victim, you will begin to realize a strength that is not your own. The result? You will make a difference because of the way you respond to the circumstances that once defeated you. To the people closest to you, your contentment despite your circumstances will be nothing short of heroic.

Cling to hope! Focus on Christ, despite your circumstances.

 

Taken from Charles R. Swindoll, “Despite Your Circumstances,” in Great Days with the Great Lives (Nashville: W Publishing, 2005), 335. Copyright © 2005 by Charles R. Swindoll, Inc. All rights reserved worldwide.

Tuesday, February 05, 2013

Words to Live By

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

Words-to-live-byI saw it a bazillion times last year . . . a beautiful calendar that hung on our kitchen wall for 365 days. It looked so inspiring on the store shelf. I intended to read its encouraging words throughout 2012. Then life happened. I got too busy to stop and consider the thought-provoking words and awe-inspiring pictures. I passed the calendar daily and didn’t even notice it.

When Life Happens
On most days, we need a bit of inspiration. In this world we will encounter all kinds of crises that get us down. We will face loss and endure grief. And we will have to make hard decisions, such as choosing an attitude or action that goes against our own will. Even though Scripture warns us that we will encounter troubles (James 1), endure hardship (2 Corinthians 1), and face the refiner’s fire (1 Peter 1), our hearts still break when tragedy strikes.

Stirring Us to Action
Along with the challenges of life, a bit of cheering up helps us along the way. Inspiration is like wind beneath our wings—encouraging us to press on, dig deep, and stick to life’s daily tasks with diligence. Scripture is saturated with encouragement that can stir us to action—inspired words that can help us persevere, foster peace, promote character, and inspire courage:

  1. Perseverance: “Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him” (James 1:12 NIV, emphasis added).
  2. Peace: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6–7 NIV, emphasis added).
  3. Character: “A wife of noble character who can find? / She is worth far more than rubies” (Proverbs 31:10 NIV, emphasis added).
  4. Courage: “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6 NIV, emphasis added).

Let Me Hear from You
Maybe you needed a boost of encouragement from God’s Word today. Blogs are great because you can share your thoughts and find encouragement without standing out. If you need help or hope today, please let me know.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

The Question

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

The-questionSome questions are priceless. The other day, someone asked me when am I most proud of Jon, my son with disabilities. I quietly pondered. In this world of ours, most parents could quickly provide plenty of pride-filled moments: blue ribbons, being the star athlete, social recognition, good grades, good looks, or a bit of charm. All of these qualities can make parents feel proud. There is nothing wrong with awards and accolades, yet there is something wrong when such praises define what makes a parent proud.

My List
There was a time when some of the attributes listed above would have answered the question. But in raising Jon, I have evaluated what is most important; finding what I am most proud of is rarely measurable or defined by social standards.

Here is my answer to her question. I am most proud of Jon when I observe . . .

  • His effort to form his first four-word sentence, “I love you, Mommy” . . . at age 3
  • His courage to go to school each day, knowing he will be ignored or made fun of
  • His resolve to play a game, even though he’s been picked last and knows he won’t win
  • His patience as he works to tie his shoes each day
  • His endurance of painful tics and sore muscles
  • His devotion to others, despite their rejection or betrayal
  • His spiritual sensitivity . . . saying “let’s pray” every time we see an accident on the road
  • His authenticity in sharing his thoughts and feelings without shame
  • His acceptance of others, regardless of what they can do or how they look
  • His genuine care for others

Christ’s Words
I often return to Christ’s words in Matthew chapter 5:

“Blessed are the poor in spirit . . . those who mourn . . . the meek . . . those who hunger and thirst for righteousness . . . the merciful . . . the pure in heart . . . the peacemakers . . . those who are persecuted because of righteousness. . . . Blessed are you when people insult you . . . and falsely say all kinds of evil against you. . . . Great is your reward in heaven.” (Matthew 5:3–12 NIV)

What Are You Proud Of?
How would you answer the question? Are you proud of what can be measured or accomplished, feeling like a failure if you struggle with an addiction, weakness, pain, or a disability?

Let Me Hear from You
I would love to hear your thoughts as you ponder what you are really proud of.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Just after Dawn

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

Just-after-dawnEver felt drained by the day and it’s only dawn? My family and I had one of those days not long ago. It was still dark outside . . . my daughter had pneumonia, my son had bronchitis, and both needed medicine. The new container of almond milk slipped and spilled ALL OVER the kitchen counter, the salt grinder broke and dumped salt over the eggs, my son’s tics were escalated, and in trying to make a mad dash to the store, my car had a flat tire. And all this happened before sunrise!

Your challenges may be very different . . . bill collectors, basement leaks, disaster damage, disabilities, depression, a critical boss, countless court battles. Some days can be packed with demanding pressures . . . all before dawn.

Remember
There is nothing easy about sudden or incessant irritations. But there are two significant points to remember in the midst of them.

  1. We always have choices . . . many choices, in fact. We are not captive to life’s whims unless we choose to be. We make many choices every day: whether or not to have a good attitude, whether or not to temper our responses, whether or not to control our feelings. We can blame or resent, or we can accept and wisely respond. We can jump to conclusions or put things in their proper perspectives. We can choose to escape or to endure. We have many choices.
  2. We always have Christ who promises to help us through what life throws our way. Truth be told, the flat tire or critical boss or spilled milk are tangible, material problems; however, another even deeper problem resides in the condition of the heart. Our human hearts are broken and in need of constant repair and refinement . . . life’s problems are meant to awaken us to our need for God’s work to be done.

Helpful Passages of Scripture
When your day appears doomed just after dawn, meditate on these passages for help and hope.

“For I know the plans I have for you”, declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.” —Jeremiah 29:11–13 (NIV)

But we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. —Romans 5:3–4 (NIV)

Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. —James 1:2–4 (NIV)

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Robby

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

RobbyMy dad told this story in a sermon a long time ago. It’s a heartwarming urban legend, so I’m passing it along in a way similar to how Christ taught using stories, or parables, in Scripture. Parables are story-like word pictures that contain powerful life lessons many of us can remember with ease. May the lessons of this story of a young boy and his piano teacher remain fixed in our minds for the rest of our lives.

A certain piano teacher had never thought of turning away a student until she met Robby. Robby was the only child of a single mom, and at age 11 seemed “musically challenged,” to put it lightly. He worked harder than any of her other students but appeared to make little musical progress. However, he had an incredible attitude and would say after each session, “My mom’s gonna hear me play someday.”

Then suddenly, Robby stopped showing up for his lessons; his teacher was relieved and chose not to call when the piano recital they had been working toward was a week away. Before each recital, she mailed the flyers to the families of her students, forgetting Robby was still on the list. He called immediately and pleaded with her, insistent that he play. He had missed the lessons because his mother had become so sick, but he told her that he had still been practicing every day. Because Robby wouldn’t take no for an answer, the teacher listed him last on the recital program. Believing his performance would be poor, she hoped to cover it with some good closing remarks.

Robby showed up on time that night, but his clothes were wrinkled and his hair was a mess. Additionally, he had chosen a difficult piece to play—Mozart’s Concerto #21 in C major; his teacher knew it would be a disaster. Robby approached the bench calm and composed. He began to play, and the audience was silent as his fingers danced over each key. No one seemed to notice his hair or clothing; the music filled the gymnasium with wordless wonder. Upon hearing the crescendo, the audience jumped to its feet bursting in applause.

Wiping her tears, Robby’s teacher ran to the piano and praised Robby for his performance. Kindly, Robby took the microphone and reminded his teacher what he said after each practice: “Someday, my mom’s gonna hear me play.” Then he continued, “Remember how I told you my mother was very sick . . . well, she had cancer and died this morning; she was born deaf, so today she heard me play for the very first time and I wanted to make it special.”

As with the piano teacher, we all are given opportunities to learn from people like Robby. For whatever reason, something tragic happens when we overlook others because of their wrinkled clothes, messy hair, or lack of measurable or impressive work; we miss some of life’s greatest lessons taught by some of life’s wisest people.

I can assure you that most of what I write is connected in some way to great lessons I’ve learned from my disabled son, Jon. He is a gift to this world, and there are “Jons” everywhere.


Let Me Hear from You

If you have ever had a Robby experience, will you please share it with me?

Tuesday, January 08, 2013

Being Calm in the Chaos

by Colleen Swindoll Thompson

Being-calm-in-the-chaosLife was relatively manageable until about three weeks ago. And then the storm hit—“BANG!” “BOOM!” “BLAST!”—almost like those old Batman comic strips.

“BANG!”

I’ve not written about this, but my younger brother has been battling a very serious form of cancer for nine months. Watching his suffering is more than I can put into words. If we all would allow suffering to transform our souls as he has, this world would be a much better place. He had surgery last week, and it was successful. But there were some impossible circumstances surrounding the events that were terribly difficult for our family.

“BOOM!”

My son, Jon, who has disabilities, needed to have his body chemistry and functioning examined. The news felt as though I was hearing of his diagnosis for the first time. Thankfully, the prognosis is very positive. Unfortunately, he is in pain, his care is financially draining, and the treatment requires two additional hours of care each day. I have hope, but it’s a bit hidden due to the additional caregiving requirements.

“BLAST!”

My health has not been super, and due to compounding chest pain and breathing difficulties, I spent a weekend in the hospital. The doctor ruled out a heart attack but, as is often the case with caregivers, my physical, psychological, and emotional systems have suffered. So Jon and I are in the process of health overhauls.

Learning from Christ

You know what amazes me the most? I don’t ever read in Scripture that Christ’s life was hit with Bangs, Booms, and Blasts even though He faced many trials. Here are some things I’m learning from Him.

  • Christ modeled faith. He trusted God the Father fully, surrendered completely, and obeyed perfectly.
  • Christ knew who was in control. He was sent by His father and depended on God to work out what was impossible, unmanageable, and unbearable.
  • Christ established boundaries. When He needed time away, He took it. When He was tired, He rested. When He was challenged, He sought His Father’s wisdom and direction.
  • Christ achieved His purpose . . . to trust and obey His heavenly Father.

Perhaps a storm has hit you and you’re wondering how you’re going to handle it. Though our circumstances may be different, pain and pressure will inevitably push us in one of two directions: we can lose heart or we can gain hope. Let’s learn to share our burdens and lean on Christ together. Let’s pursue hope together.


Let Me Hear from You

I would love to hear how the Lord has helped you.


Some Suggested Resources


Encouragement for Life: Words of Hope and Inspiration
by Charles R. Swindoll, hardcover book

Perfect Trust
by Charles R. Swindoll, hardcover book

2013 Insight for Living Calendar: Traveling the Road of Faith